Atlantis is probably the third fandom I have become actively 'involved' in. First was Final Fantasy, then Lord of the Rings and now Atlantis. And I have to say, out of the three, Atlantis is my favourite, but it also appears to be one of the bitchiest. Final Fantasy had it's moments, but it's a huge place, so you can always find plenty of friendly people. LOTR was too deep in character to really try to be bitchy. And then there's Atlantis. We've got character bashing, ship bashing and even actor bashing.
For character bashing, it mainly seems to be aimed at Weir and Ronon. Don't get me wrong, there could be others, but it mainly seems to be those two. Gateworld has a 'Get Rid of Ronon' thread, there was a thread about killing Ronon off on IMDb, and then there's
kill_dr_weir. I know everyone is entitled to their opinion, but when does it become fair to attack a character? I personally don't like Caldwell, or Teyla particularly, but that doesn't mean I sit here devising ways to kill them and I certainly wouldn't try to rally other people round to my way of thinking. It's one thing to dislike a character, it's another to attack them in every way possible. It also just means that you end up insulting other fans, and getting them mad at you. Which is of course a *great* way to make friends and influence people.
Ship bashing is harsh. It's very, very harsh. And one set of shippers launch on another set of shippers, you've just got to stand back. And, I am not trying to discriminate here but this is the only one I know of, some of the worst are the Sheyla's and the Sparky's. Quite simply, we don't see eye to eye. We don't see where they're coming from and vice versa. Unfortunately, some are more vocal about it than others. All it takes is one or two Sheyla's, or even Sparky's, to say something in the wrong place and all hell breaks loose. To put it in simple terms, we both ship the same person with different characters. However, we are all fans of the show, and we shouldn't really let personal opinions cloud that. There are plenty of nice Sparky's and plenty of nice Sheyla's, it's just a small minority who want to stir up trouble. And there are some fans who need to express their hate of some ships with icons, etc. Again, let's just wind up other fans.
Actor bashing is pointless and cruel. But it keeps happening in the Atlantis fandom. I admit, I've only seen attacks aimed at Torri Higginson, and some at Jason Momoa, but still. It's the constant repetetive drone of 'Weir is old'. May not seem insulting to whoever posted it, and a few crazy collaborators, but how would you feel if you came online and found someone saying you looked old? I'd be pretty pissed off. Not only is this going to annoy other fans, this is pretty serious stuff. Fandon is about people being joined together as fans of one show, not a case of 'We like the show, but we're gonna insult the people in it'. It's just not on.
Right, I'm going to shut up now, but if anyone else wants to add anything, comment to this. I'm gonna leave this post public for a while, not that anyone will read it other than the flist I bet. I've been wanting to type this up for ages, finally got round to it.